Monday, July 8, 2013

To live as a life lesson

Wise people say that those people came to your life for a perfect reason God's created. But then so do we, right? We also came to someone else's life for a reason although it beyond our own goodwill. We can be a blessing nor a lesson for them. The question is can we accept that?

I'm sure none of us deliberately do an evil thing to hurt each other. We're born as a good man. We want to live happily side by side with others. We want be a good man, give the best we can to put a smile on their face. It's a blessing. A positive one.

But life is full of surprises. Bad things happen. We broke our promises, fortuitously the other will disappointed. We may unintentionally cut the other happiness, also because of our decision. Things mess up. We get angry, at the same time, we also hurt those who we put blame on, even it's ourselves. I really think at time like that, we're such a fool.

I mean, do we realize that we sometimes are in the center of negative frequences? We probably are the causes of any bad things that people do? Their rebellions were caused by our harsh words when we angry. Their infocus work caused by our selfish instruction. Then people cry, they left us. It may  because the unhealing distrust we made.

It's something undeniable that we, as a human, can make a bad impact in other human's life. However, at least we make them think to not be like us. We let them choose the other positive track, not here with us. We also make a self mark to not do the same mistake again. 

But, the second question is have we ask for forgiveness for who were yesterday to your closest friend, your mate, your parent, either they still stay or left? The last one and the most noteworthy is have we forgive ourselves yesterday for anything he had done?

Happy Ramadhan and happy fasting to all of us! May Allah forgive our sins ^^

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